How Well Do You Cope With Change?
How to Tell if You Are "Too Busy"?
How Well Do You Manage Stress?
How Well Do You Take Responsibility For Yourself?
How Well Do You Fulfill Your Needs?
Are You Living with a "Victim" Mentaltity?
How Well Do You Express Your Needs?
How Well Do You Handle Worry?
Test Your Temper
How Healthy Is Your Relationship with Money?
How Well Do You Handle Fear?
How Well Do You Part Ways?
Do You Have Workaholic Habits?
How Well Do You Handle Failure?
How Well Do You Practice Empathy?
How Defensive Are You?
Is Your On-line Friendship Too Friendly?
Has Your Friendship Become an Emotional Affair?

Quizzes

How to Tell if You Are "Too Busy"

Time is the great equalizer. Everybody gets the same amount: 24 hours in a day, 60 minutes in an hour. We can't save time or accumulate or rearrange it. We can't turn it off or on. It can't be replaced.

But these days, it seems as if the lament of not having enough time has become a national anthem. Everywhere people find themselves constantly in a rush, over-booked and over-scheduled with no time off. Life is accompanied by the ongoing stress of not enough time. And sometimes doing too much and being too busy can be a way of numbing feelings or disguising depression or anger.

Though it may not always seem so, how we fill our time and how we spend it is our choice. Answer the following questions to discover if you're caught up in the "too-busy" cycle.

True False  
I constantly find myself doing "urgent" things and trying to catch up.

I allow myself to drift into obligations when I don't know how much time or energy they'll require.

I find myself running from when I get up in the morning until I go to bed at night. I'm always tired and never feel like I accomplished enough.

I seldom schedule a day off for myself and when I do, I tend to fill it with activities.

I have difficulty saying "No."

I don't make time for self-care activities: physical exercise, nurturing or pampering myself, cultural stimulation, spiritual well-being, learning something new, playing, or simply doing nothing.

My work and project areas are cluttered with "I'll look at this later" stacks and "to-do" piles.

I often miscalculate how long certain activities will take.

I often miss deadlines, or work long hours to meet a deadline.

I respond to interruptions such as phone calls, faxes, email, beepers and pagers and allow them to take me off track.

I try to keep things in my head rather than making lists, or if I do make a daily "to-do" list, it is impossible to complete in a day.

I tend to move from one urgent thing to the next, rather than working toward specific goals and objectives.

I find myself constantly wishing I had more time or projecting an imaginary future when I have more time, making comments such as "as  soon as..." or "next year...."

I seldom have time to do the things I really love.

I spend time running errands and rushing because I didn't plan well enough.

I spend time doing things that I could pay someone else to do.

 I often do things because I "should," or continue to do things that no longer fit who I am.

Other people complain that my schedule doesn't allow enough time for them.

I feel out of control and powerless over my time and commitments.

Score:

-19 to -7: You do not organize your time well. These fast-paced, high-energy days it's difficult to stay out of the "too-busy" lane. If you would like some help slowing down your life, please don't hesitate to call.

-7 to 6: You are able to manage your time but could develop organization skills.

7 to 19: You are very organized with your time and make room to do the things you love.