How Well Do You Cope With Change?
How to Tell if You Are "Too Busy"?
How Well Do You Manage Stress?
How Well Do You Take Responsibility For Yourself?
How Well Do You Fulfill Your Needs?
Are You Living with a "Victim" Mentaltity?
How Well Do You Express Your Needs?
How Well Do You Handle Worry?
Test Your Temper
How Healthy Is Your Relationship with Money?
How Well Do You Handle Fear?
How Well Do You Part Ways?
Do You Have Workaholic Habits?
How Well Do You Handle Failure?
How Well Do You Practice Empathy?
How Defensive Are You?
Is Your On-line Friendship Too Friendly?
Has Your Friendship Become an Emotional Affair?

Quizzes

How Well Do You Manage Stress?

The impact of stress accumulates, and, beyond the ongoing, regular stress that comes from living in our high-impact culture, specific life events can really knock us for a loop. Even happy changes can cause bumps in the road, which we register both physically and emotionally. While we can't eliminate stress from our lives, we can learn where our hot spots are and how to best reduce and manage the stress we do experience.

True False  
1. I set the pace for the day by beginning with peaceful thinking either through reading an inspiring passage, saying a prayer or acknowledging the gift of a fresh, new day.

2. Throughout the day I live in the moment. I don't brood about a past event or fret about the future.

3. Each day I do something physical even if it's just a walk around the block or a 20-minute workout.

4. I eat healthfully and take the time to enjoy my meals. I set aside work, driving and other activities while I eat. No multi-tasking.

5. I think positively. I view problems as challenges and obstacles as opportunities.

6. I can say no when I need to.

7. I leave open time in my day for doing something spontaneous. Or doing nothing.

8. When I sense tension in my body, I practice progressive muscle relaxation, beginning with my face and moving down to my feet. I remember to breathe.

9. My daily "to-do" list contains only that which can be accomplished in a day—even if it's only part of a larger project.

10. I am willing to settle for "good enough." I don't make constant demands on myself to have the "-est" of anything (cleanest house, finest yard, best meals).

11. Throughout the day, I create peaceful images in my mind where I can retreat for a moment to rest and refill. A sunlit beach, a shady forest, a quiet stream.

12. When I am aware of feelings of anger, irritability, cynicism beginning to build, I replace them with thoughts of peace, hope, patience, joy.

13. I use my time and energy to make changes where I can and accept the things I cannot change.

14. When I am able, I plan events that I know will cause stress (moving, giving a party, buying a new car) around times when less is going on (a quiet time at work, no pressing deadlines, no holidays in sight, etc.).

15. I use a journal not just to write about stressful events and problems, but to express my thoughts and feelings.

16. I plan time off regularly. A weekend away. A long vacation. One day a month, just for me.

17. I talk to my friends and family about what's going on with me and when I need to, I seek guidance and counselling from professionals.

Score:

-17 to -6 : You have been unable to manage the stress in your life. If you're going through an especially stressful time or experiencing difficulty dealing with stress in your life, don't hesitate to ask for help.

-5 to 5 : You have been able to manage the stress in your life but you could do it more effectively.

6 to 17 : You are able to reduce and manage the stress you do experience very well.